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This December 3rd, 2021 for the International Day of Persons with Disabilities we celebrate YOU!
Enjoy the poetry reading of the late poet, writer, and disability activist Laura Hershey, we present the poem on its 30th anniversary "You Get Proud by Practicing."
(Plain text of the poem is just below. The video may also be enjoyed with captioned text within the video on YouTube and read in the description).
You Get Proud
by Practicing
by Laura
Hershey (1991)
If you are not
proud For who you
are, for what you say, for how you look; If every time
you stop To think of
yourself, you do not see yourself glowing With golden
light; do not, therefore, give up on yourself. You can get
proud. You do not need A better body,
a purer spirit, or a Ph.D. To be proud. You do not need A lot of money,
a handsome boyfriend, or a nice car. You do not need To be able to
walk, or see, or hear, Or use big,
complicated words, Or do any of
those things that you just can’t do To be proud. A
caseworker Cannot make you
proud, Or a doctor. You only need
more practice. You get proud
by practicing. There are many
many ways to get proud. You can try
riding a horse, or skiing on one leg, Or playing
guitar, And do well or
not so well, And be glad you
tried Either way. You can show Something
you’ve made To someone you
respect And be happy
with it no matter What they say. You can say What you think,
though you know Other people do
not think the same way, and you can keep saying it,
even if they tell you You are crazy. You can add
your voice All night to
the voices Of a hundred
and fifty others In a circle Around a
jailhouse Where your
brothers and sisters are being held For blocking
buses with no lifts, Or you can be
one of the ones Inside the
jailhouse, Knowing of the
circle outside. You can speak
your love To a friend Without fear. You can find
someone who will listen to you Without judging
you or doubting you or being Afraid of you And let you
hear yourself perhaps For the very
first time. These are all
ways Of getting
proud. None of them Are easy, but
all of them Are possible.
You can do all of these things, Or just one of
them again and again. You get proud By practicing. Power makes you
proud, and power Comes in many
fine forms Supple and rich
as butterfly wings. It is music when you
practice opening your mouth And liking what
you hear Because it is
the sound of your own True voice. It is sunlight When you
practice seeing Strength and
beauty in everyone, Including
yourself. It is dance when you
practice knowing That what you
do And the way you
do it Is the right
way for you And cannot be
called wrong. All these hold More power than
weapons or money Or lies. All these
practices bring power, and power Makes you
proud. You get proud By practicing. Remember, you
weren’t the one Who made you
ashamed, But you are the
one Who can make
you proud. Just practice, Practice until
you get proud, and once you are proud, Keep practicing
so you won’t forget. By practicing.